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New here. Seeking understanding

New here. Seeking understanding

Hello ^^

 

I'm not sure how much depth is appropriate for an introductory post. I reflect a lot, but I'll try to keep it short and sweet.

 

Last year, I moved into a new environment. It allowed me to stabilise. I wrote every day: poetry, short stories, reflections, poetic reflective stories.

 

It's been quite a journey, but it seems I can confuse or even upset people at times. I don't force perspectives, but apparently, even poetry can cause upset. I realise there is a time and a place for such things, and it's not for everyone.

 

I'm not looking for validation or recognition, just a gentle kind of understanding. I've found it difficult to be peaceful and bright in a world full of friction, which seems to be my only real friction.

 

Sometimes, I can't help but express myself poetically. But, I'm not sure that kind of thing will resonate here. I soften my darkness, and dim my light, so that I can exist in a place that is supportive of my misunderstood and unexpected development.

 

I do have mental health conditions. I'm happy to talk about them.

 

I'm looking forward to exploring the forums. I often read a lot of posts before making my own.

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Hello @tarkanakrat and welcome to the forums. I also write poetry and share some of them here. My poems are usually written in my darkest moments so they can get very dark. I also write ones based on traumatic life experiences as a way to express things and get things out. When I share them here if I'm worried that something might trigger or upset others there's the option to put a trigger warning on it so that it is hidden and if others want to read it they can tap on it to read it. 

 

@tyme  can probably explain that so much better than me 😂.

 

It's lovely to have you here and i hope you find it helpful to connect with the community ☺️

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@MissGremlin thanks for the kind welcome ^^

It's comforting to know there are fellow poets here. I must admit: some of my poetry has been dark.

But, there's been a lot of brighter stuff. That is my true passion. I can feel isolated at times because those around me don't see much beauty in life. Yes, there is tragedy. There is also wonder.

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@tarkanakrat when I wrote poetry as a child/teen it was always positive and happy. Unfortunately my mental health hasn't been good lately which has lead to the darker poetry but I do sometimes challenge myself to put a positive spin on things. To keep things light in my life I do colouring and use lots of bright colours and sparkly gel pens to brighten up my world a bit ☺️. 

 

I love that last part that you said 'Yes, there is tragedy. There is also wonder'. It's so very true ☺️

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Hey @tarkanakrat ,

 

Welcome!

 

I'm glad to see @MissGremlin  has already welcomed you 🙂

 

I can't say I'm a fellow poet, but I can say I've been through some tough challenges and can relate when things are gloomy.

 

On a brigher note, I can also relate when things are bright 🙂

 

We're a pretty friendly bunch here. There's always someone online, and moderators are on 24/7 to ensure posts align with Community Guidelines.

I look forward to hearing from you. I believe there are some poetry threads. @MissGremlin , do you know which is an active poetry thread for now?

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@tyme i do but I'm not sure how to share threads 😂. It's called 'roses are red, violets are blue'. 

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Thanks for your kind words, @tyme

I was just looking for the appropriate place to post poetry. I will learn these forums in time, but everything is quite new.

It's important to me that I understand and adhere to the community guidelines. I really value places like these.

I'm already surprised and warmed: quick, heartfelt replies. I am patient, so this feels like an unexpected gift.

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Hey @MissGremlin ! Just like you tag members with "@", you can tag threads with "@" too! I won't do it for you. Feel free to give it a go. Just type @ and then start typing the name of the thread 🙂 

 

@tarkanakrat , you can actually share your poetry anywhere, and even make your own thread. Totally okay 🙂 It's what works for you.

 

We are all pretty unique here. We all how our own little uniqueness. But we are real people with real stories 🙂

 

So glad you can join us

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Thankyou @tyme, I cheated. I just tagged @tarkanakrat in the poetry thread hehe. Technology sometimes doesn't cooperate with me 😂

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That's not cheating @MissGremlin ! That's being a problem-solver! Way to go!

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@tyme i actually laughed at myself for not thinking of it first 😂. I'm a little slow tonight, brain not braining from a lack of sleep 😂

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@tarkanakrat Welcome. Personally, I love poetry. It is a way of expressing your thoughts, it doesn't always conform to grammar or even the English language. Words are incredible for communication even if they don't make sense at first. 

What's your favourite word? 

Mine is "transcendental" ...music can be transcendental. 

I'm calming myself with music today. A bit of November Ultra. 

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